Planning the Perfect Romantic and Seductive Date Night –
Part 10 of 10
To round off this series of posts on date nights we’re going
to take a look at the concept of getting feedback post-date night. I’m going to
ask you to discuss how your date night went!
Now this sounds way more severe than it actually is! We’re
not talking post-date meetings to give feedback with formal minute taking,
agendas, feedback forms and actions. But it’s worth mentioning that at the very
least you could have a conversation with your partner at some point the next
day, for example, about how date night went. Did you both enjoy it? What was it
that you enjoyed? What would you both like to do differently next time? etc.
If you didn’t quite get what you wanted on your date night
then getting feedback will also help you discover what you can do next time to
get closer to some of what you want at the end of the date. Now I know that
having said this I’m contradicting what I said earlier about date night not
being totally about you getting what you want at the end of it, but I’ll pretty
much guarantee that that’s what will be on your mind at some point during date
night, so if you haven’t had the success that you want this time, then go ask
for the feedback for next time. Do it subtly though otherwise you may just as
well come out and ask the rather direct question of “why didn’t we have sex
last night?”, and that’s really not the greatest of direct questions to come
out and ask!
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